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Domina Sage
Dear Friends: As many of you already know, at this time I am not taking sessions. Though most of the time I feel that this change was the right one for me to make, I would not be completely honest in saying that I haven't missed the thrill of interacting with new people and exploring with them. So, after much thought I have come upon what will hopefully be a good compromise - I would like to offer my services as a teacher. I think it will be tons of fun to help other people learn to become better tops, as well as helping couples achieve a higher level of satisfaction with their love lives. If you are interested in receiving instruction from me, please call the house and leave me a message that includes a way that I may contact you (either phone or email). Though I am no longer regularly available for sessions I am still very present at The Gates, and I will always do my best to help each of you find the experiences you seek in the days to come. I truly appreciate the interest, affection and devotion so many of you have expressed over the years, and hope you find the same pleasure with my colleagues that you have enjoyed with me. I am leaving my
personal web page up for those that may enjoy it, and Thanks for a good time - Love, Sage
I am the Domina Sage, and
I am writing these pages to tell you a little about myself - my
beginnings
in the S/M community; my passions, specialties and
interests; my
philosophy regarding S/M; as
well as the house of bondage and discipline
- The Gates
- which I have founded.; and my location and
times of availability, the services I offer, and standard donations.
I began doing S/M around the age of fifteen or sixteen - in the beginning, I was intrigued by bondage and the power struggle that is inherent to it, and I have also enjoyed a love for leather and thigh-high boots since puberty. I have always had a keen interest in sexual experimentation, and as I grew older, I came to learn more about my sexuality and the sexuality of other people - the knowledge I was gaining only whetting my appetite for more. A few months before my nineteenth birthday, I was introduced to a woman who offered me an opportunity to expand that knowledge. She was the head of a group of women that specialized in enacting the more creative and unusual fantasies that people experience, as well as fetish exploration -- virtually anything that did not directly involve sex. I was totally unfamiliar with the concept of S/M as a profession, and needless to say, I was fascinated. Eventually, I decided that the opportunity to do something I already loved, learn more, and make money all at the same time sounded too good to pass up. For more than a year I was a switch, and felt on my own skin, and knew in my own mind the things that I also learned to impart to others. I learned how to give, and receive. I experienced a truly vast array of interests and fetishes; loves. Passions. I have been involved with dominance and submission professionally since 1992. The amount I have learned during the years that have passed is tremendous, and every day I still learn more.
Now, let me tell you of my current
interests and specialties. First of all, presently I am exclusively
dominant, and enjoy doing scenes with people of all levels of experience. Bondage
remains very high on my list of loves - the thrill that I get from the
partial to full immobilization of my willing victim is one that I am not
fully able to explain. Seeing a restrained body struggling in an
attempt at achieving freedom, dignity, or whatever unattainable goal it
is trying to reach, quickens my pulse and brings a smile to my face.
I also enjoy very much the stoic sufferer, who does not struggle or fight,
but submits willingly to the caress of my hand, or the crack of my whip.
Many of my clients have had questions
about my personal views relating to S/M, and the nature of my relationship
with my clients, and also my feelings toward them. I believe that
there are many different aspects to the relationship that exists between
a professional pervert and the client. S/M should always be shared
by consensual, mature, adult people. I believe that the financial exchange
imparts convenience and openness for both parties involved - the negotiation
that occurs between mistress and client makes it possible for both people
to get the things that are important to them. Along these same lines,
I understand that not all of the people that come to me are “slaves”.
There are as many different types of clients as there are birds in the
sky. Some people have a very clear and specific idea of what they
wish to do in each session, whereas other people prefer to allow me more,
or complete, creative control. There are also those that wish to
be slaves - to give up a greater degree of independence in their day-to-day
life, and submit to the will of the Dominant on an ongoing, semi-permanent
or permanent basis. I respect and enjoy virtually all types of clientele,
and take a special pleasure in sessions where I enjoy some degree of creative
input.
In August of 1994, I decided I was
ready to enter the business world on my own, and rented a modestly sized,
charming one bedroom apartment in Berkeley. My original intention
was simply to become independent, but I soon realized that I had not only
the capacity, but also the demand, for other women to join in the adventures.
Before long, a superb group of women grew to form the backbone of the organization
that officially came to be known as The Gates. We occupied our apartment
for a year and a half, hosting what I am sure to be the most outrageous
times that little apartment has seen ever before or since, until the time
came that I had to face the fact that we simply had outgrown the space.
The search for a worthy house began, and finally ended in a gorgeous, hundred-year-old
home easily four times the size of our previous space. Breathtaking
woodwork, vaulted ceilings, hardwood floors, and four generously-sized
session rooms made our new home very pleasant to become used to, as we
customized the space to accommodate our needs.
A vast
array of whips, crops and paddles, bondage devices for all parts of the body,
numerous types of tools and toys, and much more compose The Gates’ arsenal of
pleasures, and, along with the improvements and enhancements our facility is
continually undergoing, makes The Gates one of the premiere houses of bondage
and discipline in the Bay Area.
At this time I also wish to give credit to the single greatest force that has aided me in the creation of The Gates - the aforementioned backbone - the women who compose The Gates. I have been amazingly fortunate in the women who have crossed through the doorway of The Gates - intelligent, talented, creative while practical, honest, and overwhelmingly beautiful people. I can not give them enough credit or thank them enough for making The Gates what it is today.
Please feel free to call (510) 261-SAGE to arrange a session or for more information.
The above three photos were taken by Gerry Koehler at the Madame S. opening.
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