What happens when peace makes love with war; night makes love with day; innocence makes love with pure deviant desire? The emergence of a creatrix who radiates light while dancing wildly in the shadows…
A brilliantly embodied, sensual sapiosexual, I am Miss Irina Nyx.
I will stimulate every aspect of your being with my presence. Like a little lion cub yawning into waking, you will find yourself in awe of the aliveness unfolding all around you as you experience yourself as the pleasure-oriented, feeling being that you were meant to be…
Would you like to return to the simplicity of your senses?
I will titillate your mind just so to teasingly elicit a complete letting go. No stone left unturned, no skin left unburned by the fire of my desire for you to feel the all encompassing pleasure that is our collective birthright.
Did you think that means no pain? Silly naïveté… When you enter my world, you are surrendered to the realities of this existence, and pain has been real for you for quite some time, hasn’t it darling?
I invite you to be curious about pain as a portal to bliss. Come now, let me show you how to enjoy what you previously feared. Surrender your cares, your will, your burden and your body. Your body becomes mine and I will do with it as I wish. I delight in being present to your helplessness...
I invite you to be curious about the mystery, as well as all your attempts to understand and own the mystery. Though it can be yours to experience, it will never be yours to own. Be honest, darling. There is no shame in acknowledging how your fears have led you to try and control and contain the wild unknowable. Now is the time for penance. On the other side of your humbly reverent surrender, you will find your joyful freedom.
I take a holistic approach to my play, blending intellect, intuition, and genuine care with a sadistic twist, to guide you on a journey to bliss.
Together we will reverently explore all the kinks and quirks of your body and leave you yearning for contact with mine. The profane is sacred. The sacred is profane. There is no judgment day and I approach every desire as an opportunity to embrace ALL your parts.
A primarily dominant divine, if you have what it takes to inspire me to switch, you will be rewarded and inspired by my softer side.
I love playing with folks of all genders and backgrounds, and I especially love playing with womxn and couples. The triad structure provides endless possibilities for dynamic play, and facilitated kink exploration is an incredible gateway to deeper pleasure, intimacy, and understanding of yourself, your partner, and the third entity of the relationship between the two of you.
I’m also adept at playing and guiding in the realms of open/poly/transitioning relationships, and would be happy to discuss how BDSM play can inform and enliven all your relations. In addition to exploring desires, parts of self, boundaries, liberation from shame, and cultivating a generally more playful approach to life, we will always explore consent, ideally with a lot of laughter and enjoyment. Understanding consent is central to our ability to know ourselves, build intimate relationships, and create the life we desire.
If you are interested in custom crafted immersion experiences, ongoing intimacy coaching, or a longer term relationship with a Muse, please email me with your inquiry and to request an application form.
Special interests include but are not limited to:
• Role play
• Private erotic dance
• Foot worship
• Impact play (spanking, flogging, caning, paddling)
• Human canvas
• Sensual play
• Sensory deprivation
• Breath play
• Chastity training
• Double sessions with other mistresses
• Financial domination
• Hair pulling
• Face slapping
• Tease and denial
• Nipple torture
• Cross dressing
• Forest nymphing
• Kinky initiations and rites of passage
• Intimacy coaching
• Special consideration given to those who indulge my Philanthropy fetish
• Donors Choose – schools in the Bay Area
“I wish to thank you for granting me my first session last week. It was, from my perspective, a transcendent experience. Seemingly "out of body".
I must confess that I initially sought a session with you because of your physical attractiveness. Upon meeting you, I realized that I was unprepared for the athletic grace with which you carry yourself and the overriding confidence that you own. It was at once both unsettling and comforting. The message was clear -- you are beautiful, powerful and kind. I knew that I was instantly in YOUR world but that I would be okay as long as I respected your rules and demonstrated my obedience. There really is no other option when meeting you for the first time.
Things worked out in ways that exceeded my wildest hopes expectations. Every act of worship that you ordered was extremely fulfilling to me. I couldn't wait for your next set of instructions. I sensed at times that you were enjoying my servitude, which drove me wild. As you shared thoughts with me I found myself straining to try to look past your physical beauty so that I could focus on what you were offering from inside. I was only partially successful at doing this but hopefully I will do better if you are kind enough to grant me another session.
I don't know what will take place if you do allow a next session. I just long to be in your world and be able to absorb as much as I can from you.
Miss Irina, please look kindly on my humble request for another session. I promise to work hard to become the type of servant that you so richly deserve.”
“My session with Miss Irina Nyx was the catalyst for so much in my life. This was my first official BDSM session of any kind, although the idea of being dominated has always been a huge sexual turn on for me. I was made to feel comfortable & safe from the moment we first began communicating (via email) till the moment we said goodbye, after the session ended. Everything I shared with her was spoken about with such a casual yet respectful manner that it made me feel comfortable (instead of ashamed, as I have often felt in the past about some of my kinks & fetishes) & able to share & trust her fully.
The session itself was absolutely full on hot! The moment she entered the designated room, she became someone else, fully the dominant I so desire & I was turned on from the moment we began till the moment we ended. She used all I had shared with her previously to make my experience the most erotic & satisfying it could possibly be, while fulfilling all my desires for the dominant kink I wanted. She took my cues & ran with them & never broke from her role, which was of utmost importance to me.
Her physical presence was almost as sexually stimulating as her verbal commentary, which had me at times quivering from pure arousal. When the session was over, she wrapped me in a towel (I had been in the tub... Another turn on of mine...how did she know!?) gave me some water & lay on the bed with me, listening to me as I shared my feelings about the whole experience.
Since our session I have begun to read about & experiment more with the BDSM lifestyle & feel our session together was a direct catalyst for some of the sexual awakenings I have had in the last month, since our session.
I highly recommend her & think everyone should explore this & any other sexual kinks that intrigue them, cuz it's worth it!”
- Miss T
“My session with Irina during her recent northeast trip was an experience I will not soon forget. She is intuitive, sexy, fun, and playful... yet intense at the same time. She has an amazing innate ability to know exactly what you want, and whatever she thinks she may not know, she will ask, and happily, and skillfully deliver. As a sessioner, she is spot-on. And as a person, if you should have the crazy luck of being able to hang with her and share some conversation, she is engaging, interesting, kind, warm, and absolutely brilliant. Miss Irina Nyx is the whole package. How about this to convince you: after thirty years of sessioning, she is the best I have ever had.”
“Something told me when I saw Irina’s plans to visit Boston I needed to meet her. I am so very thankful for that decision. My experience with Irina was powerful and fulfilling. We established a role play that she played perfectly, using it to demonstrate her physical and psychological power over me. First I could not escape her scissors; soon I was a sensual captive of both her mind and body. Our session was powerfully erotic and at moments transcendent. Our session flowed perfectly from sensual wrestling to muscle worship, never letting me question or forget who was in control. I’ve explored wrestling sessions for years but my experience with Irina was like no other.”
“Intoxicatingly beautiful, brilliant, and very intuitive. Lithe, and strong -with eyes that hypnotize. Very best there is!”
“With respect to everyone I've sessioned with before, Irina is my new favorite! She was very accommodating with my requests and patient with issues on my end in regards to scheduling.
Even though I had a strength advantage -- I outweigh her by about 50 lbs. -- she overcame it with better technique. She tapped me more times than I was able to tap her during semi-competitive wrestling. Whenever I was able to beat her in any of the activities we did, she was a great sport about it.
I will also concur with a previous reviewer that as great as she looks in her pictures here, she looks even prettier in person and she has an amazing bikini body. I'm so glad Irina is in the SF Bay Area. Don't hesitate to book her when you can.”
“I recently had a wonderful 2-hour semi-competitive session with Miss Nyx during her N.C. trip. Not only was she a joy to interact and spend time with overall, but she was a blast to tussle with as well. She has a motor and was able to completely wear me out by the end of our match. I'm very much looking forward to the next time I get to hit the mats with Miss Nyx!”
“I had a session with miss nyx and it was a great experience. She was good with her email responses to set up the session. From her email responses she had a very joyful and playful nature, which showed in our session. In addition to her personality, her pics on this site (as good as it is) does not compare to her in person as she is amazing with beautiful mesmerizing eyes and an awesome bikini body. Would highly recommend.”
“I just wanted to say Thank You, I had an amazing time. Not only are you extremely sexy, you are very smart (which makes you sexier) everything was great, next time I will book more time with you.”
When I met you for the first time, I did so with anticipation enticed by the alluring nature of your photos and the vivid picture you drew with your bio on the Gates website. You walked through the curtain, stunning in red. I told you I did not have a lot of experience with role playing, but fantasized about being with a stripper and seduced to come to your home where I would be tied and gagged, and ordered to worship your body. I never imagined how excited I would become at seeing the erotic dance and acrobatic skills you displayed. My panting became nearly uncontrollable and you had to order me to take a deep breath. Truly, you could be a star in Cirque Du Soleil. You took me to an area where no stripper or domme has ever taken me before. It was a fantasy come to life. I look forward to seeing you again and going on another adventure with you. I await your surprises. I submit to you.”
“Your eye contact and presence contributed to the most intense trance I’ve ever felt without intense impact or formal hypnotic induction.”
“The experience invited me into my body. I’m excited and energized for the sacred kink festival I’m going to…”
“I feel good. I enjoyed the experience. I liked the mix of building on my ideas and improvising. I loved the edge of making me give you a striptease, having heart that sissification is a desire of mine and also something I identified as a limit. Skillfully leaning into an edge without going too far is both safe and exciting. Thank you!”
“You’re mesmerizing… You’re like a wood nymph or a sprite. Did you sprinkle fairy dust on me?! This has been so healing. Thank you.”
I’m very much looking forward to meeting you and learning your desires. To share your fantasy and schedule a session, email me at
If you wish to come into my favor by impressing upon me your respect and reverence, I accept gifts from my Amazon wishlist as well as fresh flowers, ethically-sourced crystals, organic fruit, gift cards to Agent Provocateur, Mr. S Leather, Sephora, and REI.
Age: 32; height: 5’3”; shoe size: 9; tattoos: two small, one large. Playing professionally since July 2018.